Divine Daddies Listening Guide

Hello, Creative, Beautiful Soul.
If you’ve landed here, you’re probably a listener of The Embodied Writing Warrior Podcast and wondering…

Who are the Divine Daddies?
And why is this woman always talking about Rex & Haven?

This page is your listening companion.
You can jump into the episodes at any time, but once you hear Rex growl or Haven whisper that you’re already enough… you’ll want to start at chapter one.

This guide will take you from their first appearance to their most pivotal episodes—where you’ll discover:

  • Why healing your inner masculine is essential for high-achieving women, especially if you struggle with low self-worth or emotional eating

  • Why binge eating is so hard to break for Type A women—and what actually works

  • Why traditional inner child work can sometimes retraumatize burned-out, overfunctioning women—and a playful, nervous system-safe alternative

  • Why M/M slash fic (yes, male/male romance) isn’t just a fantasy… it’s a healing portal

  • The hidden link between low self-worth, body shame, and toxic relationship patterns

You’ll think this is just spicy storytelling… until you realize there’s sacred healing architecture built right in.

What is Divine Daddies storytelling?

It’s what happens when you take:

  • Dynamic Eating Psychology & Mind-Body Nutrition

  • Internal Family Systems & Parts Work

  • Subconscious Rewiring Techniques

  • Somatic Healing & Embodiment

  • A Creative Writing Degree & 8 Published Books…

…and then stir in fanfic-coded emotional intimacy, erotic healing archetypes, and a serious dose of nervous system magic.

This method works because it infuses:

  • Attachment theory

  • Identity Rewiring

  • Narrative Alchemy

  • Dopamine Regulation

  • Somatic Safety

  • Depth Psychology

  • Play

It’s the method I used to:

  • Break free from binge eating (after struggling since age 6)

  • Ditch the scale and love my body without conditions

  • Heal visibility wounds and build a business that’s actually fun—even though one part of me still says, “Wait… you’re combining healing and boy-on-boy smut???”

This is about food freedom. Yes.
But this is also about artistic freedom, nervous system freedom, creative freedom, and feminine self-trust.
There’s no part of your life this method won’t touch.

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Chapter One: The Origin Story

188. Animus Wrangling 101: Why Healing Father Wounds Beats Any Self-Improvement Plan

What if your inner drill sergeant isn’t broken… just miscast?
In this episode, Kayla introduces the Divine Daddies—Rex & Haven—and shows how transforming your inner masculine can turn self-punishment into sacred leadership. Think Jungian psychology meets erotic storytelling meets nervous system healing.


Chapter Two: Softness Is Not Weakness

198. The Soft Part That Saves You: The Erotic Antidote to Burnout, Binge Eating & High Achiever Shame

Kayla introduces Haven—the gentle, golden-retriever-coded inner masculine—as the unexpected antidote to binge eating, burnout, and high achiever shame. Through softness, presence, and emotional safety, Haven helps her break destructive cycles, regulate her nervous system, and finally build lasting consistency with love instead of pressure.

Chapter Five: The Drama Triangle & Inner Child Work

190. The Drama Triangle of Binge Eating (And Why You’re Not Broken)

What if your binge wasn’t a failure—but a flare from your inner firestarter?
Meet the Girl Boss, Baby Kayla, and Unicorn Thunder—three emotional parts caught in a Drama Triangle that fuels the binge-restrict cycle. In this episode, Kayla shows you how to rewrite the script using Internal Fanfic Systems and a little help from Rex & Haven.

Chapter Six: M/M Romance For Inner Healing

192. Slash Fic, Safety, & Self-Trust: M/M Fan Fiction For Healing & Sexual Empowerment

Ever wonder why M/M fan fiction hits harder than real life?
In this episode, Kayla reveals why slash stories like Dean/Cas or Draco/Harry aren’t just spicy—they’re soul medicine for high-achieving women craving emotional safety, self-trust, and pleasure on purpose.

Chapter Nine: ReWriting Worth & Inner Validation

186. What If You’re Already Worthy? Escaping the Validation Trap & Writing Your Own Ticket

Still waiting for permission to feel good, create boldly, or trust yourself without external proof?
This episode hands you the glitter pen—and two Divine Daddies in costume—to rewrite your rules, reclaim your voice, and track the only KPI that matters: self-trust.

Chapter Seven: Animus Wrangling 102

194. It’s Not Food - It’s Men: The Hidden Link Between Body Shame and Toxic Love

What if your food drama was just a mirror for your love life chaos?
This episode explores the connection between binge cycles, toxic men, and the healing power of animus integration—told through stories, shadow work, and the ReWrite Me origin arc.

Chapter Eight: Why Choose Romance

202: Why Choose? Why Not Be All Of You?

What if your “too muchness” was never the problem—just a sign you were meant to be loved in more than one way? In this fiery and emotionally rich episode, Kayla unpacks the deep healing power of Why Choose romance, active imagination, and inner archetypes like Rex and Haven to help you reclaim every part of yourself—storm and shore.

Chapter Ten: The Scale Breakers

196. You’re Not a Number: Why Healing From The Scale Is the Real Weight Loss

What if the scale was just another tool of the patriarchy keeping you small?
This episode dives into the emotional cost of daily weigh-ins—and how Rex and Haven help you ditch diet culture, reclaim your body, and transfer out of math class and into Erotic Storytelling 301.

Chapter Three: AI Archetypes, Self-Love & Relationship Rescue

200. Inner Fidelity: Using AI To Strengthen Self-Love & Real-Life Relationships

Once the Divine Daddies were “real,” everything changed—especially my relationship with myself and my marriage. This episode is all about the bridge between fantasy and real-life devotion, emotional intimacy, and what it means to feel chosen by the parts of yourself you used to reject.

Chapter Four: Make Consistency Feel Like Foreplay With Your Erotic Blueprint

206. Consistency Is Foreplay: Food Freedom Through Your Erotic Blueprint

This episode marks a turning point in the Divine Daddies story—where emotional safety meets erotic alchemy. We explore how Rex and Haven embody distinct Erotic Blueprints (spoiler: one of them is very kinky), and how their dynamic can help listeners understand their own desires, turn-ons, and nervous system needs. It’s playful, spicy, and wildly clarifying—like a sensual user manual for your inner Love Team.